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Shayla Renee Hammond |
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Born August 19, 1990 ~ Heaven Bound February 28, 2006
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To my beautiful angel Shayla, May you always shine as bright in heaven as you did here on earth. I feel so safe knowing I have you up there on my side watching over us. Love Auntie, Erica, Uncle Chad and your babies Kelsey, Angel and Isaac.
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You wanted to know a little more about Shayla. She was born on August 19,
1990 in Brainerd, MN a very beautiful brown eyed baby. At the age of 2
her sister Kelsey Lee was born making her a proud big sister. She was a
big helper for about the first year after that her sister became her own
little play toy,...if her sister yelled Shayla giggled. over the years
thou they became the best of friends. Shayla went from sticking her
sisters foot in the toilet just to see if it fit to being Kelsey protector
against any thing or any one that came in her way. Shayla was allowed to
torment her sister but NO ONE else was not even myself. Shayla loved music
any and all music. She was proud to be able to say that she knew all the
music from the oldies. of course meaning the 80's. Her favorite saying to
me was "mom you are so 80's". Shayla loved the theater, anything that had
to do with being on stage that was for her. In 7th grade she started her
acting on stage by joining the theater arts club. She was also in it in
8th grade, than in 9th grade she actually got to take the class. which to
her was the most exciting thing to happen. Shayla loved people and
animals. She took a small animals class in 9th grade and everyday would
come home with more exciting news about what she had learned that day
about all kinds of different animals. Shayla loved to write poems, she
would express her feelings and thought threw them. One of her best
friends, Paige and her would sit down and write together. They would
write amazing together and separate. Shayla's favorite song was
Traveling Solider by The Dixie Chicks....she actually preformed it on
stage for one of her tryouts for a play. She knew every word by heart.
She was a very beautiful 15 year old girl who touched the hearts of every
person she met. On Saturday the 25th she woke up in the middle of the
night around 4 am throwing up with a very low grade fever. I gave her
some Tylenol and water and and a bucket, she said she felt better and just
need to rest. I told her I would take her in the next day if she still
wasn't feeling well. she said her ear hurt. Saturday morning around 9 she
woke up with blood coming out of her ear. I made her an appointment for
11 and took her in. She was cool to the touch so I didn't think to take
her temp but when we got the the clinic it was 104.9. The dr there gave
her Tylenol and waited a half hour and took her temp again it was still
104.5 so her gave her 2 advil a half hour later it was still 104.5 so her
gave her 2 more Advil and wrote out 2 prescriptions one for the z pack and
one for ear drops. he said she had ear infection and strep throat. I
asked questions about her eyes and her breathing and the fact that she
couldn't walk well. He said that it was because of the fever and the
infection not to worry once the fever went down and the meds started to
work that she would be fine. when her fever was down to 103.7 he said she
could go home and the cool air would do her good. We put her in a wheel
chair and he said if her fever gets above 105 to take her to the ER
otherwise she should be fine. He is the doctor so I took her home. I got
her home and her fever went back to normal but she didn't she got worse.
By 6 pm she wasn't not answering simple questions like her name. I took
her to the ER and there they did a allot of test and determined she had
meningitis. Her white count was over 40,000 for those of you who don't
know the normal is between 5 and 7. they admitted her into ice. Sunday
morning they said they may have to send her to the children's hospital in
MN because her kidneys were not functioning properly. By this time she was
already in a coma and being kept alive basically by machines. But there
was still hope that she would pull thru and be ok. at 9pm they sent her by
ambulance to St.Paul. There they put a shunt in her head to drain fluid
and check the icp (inter cranial pressure) the pressure was at 89 % normal
is none but safe is around 13%. They got it down to 56% and things were
looking good. With more meds and more tubes and more test things weren't
looking any better. On Monday her temperature shot up to between 105 and
106. Her blood pressure and icp was the major issue that they were working
so hard to stabilize. On Tuesday she ran between 107 and 108 all day and
her blood pressure was all over the place. They said the icp was getting
to be uncontrollable and that we need to get family in. At 5:42pm
February 28th 2006 Shayla crossed over to the other side. She will be
loved and miss by us all forever.
I want to add this poem it was the last one that she wrote:
To: Auntie Dawn and Mom THE PERFECT AND SIMPLEST RECIPE God made the perfect recipe when he made you My love & life For all the right ingredients we sent to you from up above a large dash of sweetness pinches beyond pinches of fun a couple of deep cups of love then he was all done he also blessed me too by giving me the best parent who are you!! Love always Shay Bear Her nick name was Shay Bear. She was a wonderful caring loving young woman! She was angel in this world and she will always be the angel looking over us.
Poem For Shayla NEVER GONE Never gone, always near her sprits with you so have no fear she died so young she went so fast although she's in heaven the memories will last she held our hands and touched our hearts then like an angel she now departs they may say she's gone but that's not true where ever you are she'll be there with you still holding your hand she'll never let go keep her with you deep within your soul remember the good times the laughter and smiles keep all the memories laugh for awhile don't remember the bad times remember all that was good never blame yourself we all did what we could so whatever you do don't let her die because remembering her will always keep her alive
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Notes to Shayla |
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Shayla, your life has touched so many. I love you, and will cherish every
moment I have ever had with you. Forever in my heart, Mama Tigs.
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